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Does perineal massage reduce tearing during birth?

A few minutes a day from 35 weeks can lower the chance of tearing — especially with a first baby.

Medically reviewed by Dr. Christopher Sterling, obstetrician ·

The short answer

Yes, for many people. Research shows that perineal massage in the last weeks of pregnancy — the RCOG suggests daily from 35 weeks — reduces the likelihood of tears that need stitches and of episiotomy, particularly for a first vaginal birth.

Illustration of a calendar page showing week 35 and a small oil bottle

Why it matters

Gently stretching the perineum — the skin between the vagina and anus — in the weeks before birth helps it stretch more easily during delivery.

A Cochrane review found antenatal perineal massage reduces perineal trauma needing stitches, with the clearest benefit for people giving birth vaginally for the first time.

What to do

  • Start from about 35 weeks and repeat daily, or whenever you can, for a few minutes.
  • Use a plain, unscented oil and clean hands (a partner can help).
  • Ask your midwife to explain the technique.
  • Skip it if you have vaginal infection, bleeding or have been told not to.

Common questions

When should I start perineal massage?

The RCOG suggests from 35 weeks until your baby is born. It can take a couple of weeks of daily massage before you notice a difference.

Sources

  1. RCOG — Reducing your risk of perineal tears
  2. NHS — Episiotomy and perineal tears
  3. Cochrane — Antenatal perineal massage for reducing perineal trauma

Medically reviewed by Dr. Christopher Sterling, obstetrician, on against the sources above. Guidance can differ between countries — always follow the advice of your own midwife, doctor or pharmacist. Medical disclaimer.

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